One morning, stumbling my way into the kitchen on my way to
the coffee pot, I noticed something propped up against the vase in the middle
of the table. Upon bleary-eyed
investigation, I saw it was a CD.
Mumford and Sons, the new one.
More effective than the shot of caffeine I had just been
going for, surprise and delight shot through my veins as I picked it up, turned
it over and read the list of songs.
Still holding my CD, I grabbed my mug, pouring half and half
then coffee into my cup, all the while wondering to myself, when had I ever
told him I liked Mumford and Sons?
The band had just come on my radar. Maybe I had recently listened to them on Spotify while
cooking dinner? Perhaps he had
heard me gushing about them to a friend on the phone?
One of the many things I love about my husband is that often
I don’t have to tell him the desires of my heart directly. He is lovingly listening, watching,
caring for me in tender, behind the scenes ways that melt my heart.
Recently, when my pastor said that the new sermon series would
be on The God of Abraham, I had to laugh.
This past summer I went through the study guide of Anne Graham Lotz’
book The Magnificent Obsession with some ladies from my church. The study focuses on the life of
Abraham. This year I am also studying
the book of Genesis with Bible Study Fellowship. More Abraham!
I have started to pay close attention to what God is saying
to me through the life of Abraham, because apparently He really wants me to
hear it.
Our family has
been waiting for an adoption placement now for over a year. Actually for a year and four
months. As the year anniversary of
our adoption certification rolled by on the calendar in November, I started
getting a bit antsy. This waiting
game is hard. Living day by day
and not doing anything active to achieve this thing that I want so desperately,
this simply trusting God…well, it is not for the faint of heart.
This fall my heart was getting faint.
I began thinking about other routes we could take with our
adoption, ways we could make this happen faster, so that we would no longer be
waiting but would instead be living this dream and promise from God. I felt so ready to welcome another
child into our home and to write the next chapter of our adoption story, the chapter
that comes AFTER the chapter on waiting.
In the middle of this internal storm, I opened my Bible to complete
my weekly Bible study homework, and there was Sarah offering Hagar to Abraham.
Oh, I know this story.
It is a story of a woman taking matters into her own hands. It is a story of a woman who is done
with waiting, a woman who can see no way that God can come through on His promise
and so when she sees a way that seems right to her, she takes it.
Like with that CD on the breakfast table, God listened to
the turmoil in my heart and with perfect timing, graciously reminded me of the
value of waiting for His timing.
I love what Holley Gerth says in her recently released book,
You’re Made for a God-Sized Dream: “Perhaps our idea of waiting is too
limited. We think we have to be
still and do nothing at all. But
what if waiting is more about the attitude of our hearts?”
This resonates deeply with me because I can see, looking
back over this yearlong wait, that the attitude of my heart has indeed
changed. Coming to adoption through
the door of my own grief has meant that I have needed to be reminded that our
adoption is about so much more than satisfying my deep desire for more
children. Yes, through adoption God
can meet and fulfill my desire, but He is also working out His plan in the life
of the child we will adopt. Our
adoption will involve many other stories, many other lives, and there will be a
moment in time when it will be right for our stories to merge, but only God
knows when that time will be.
This time of waiting is like water that drips, drop by drop
over much time onto a rock face, and though at one time it dripped onto solid
rock, over time it creates its own space, so that now it has become a pool
where water collects.
This waiting is creating space in me, sacred space, open-handed
space.
May it be filled in His time.
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I love your analogy at the end, of the water dripping and pooling over time. Glory! We, too, waited for His timing with our adoption and yeah, it's hard. But your perspective is so right - God knows the perfect time for your stories to merge. Blessings as you wait.
ReplyDeleteDearest friend, Amy,
ReplyDeleteNow that Spring Break has commenced, I am finally catching up with a lot of blog reading I let go for weeks, so I wandered over here to yours, first of all. :)
This entry filled my eyes with tears--both joyful and sad--and my heart with grateful words of thanks and praise for our God Who is bigger than we often realize or remember. Thank you for the reminder that He knows each step of our individual journeys and that what we call "waiting" may, in fact, be times He uses "preparing" us and those for whom we wait. Those individial, special someones whose lives He will one day merge with ours.
Bless you and yours along and in the journey, Amy.
Waiting with you, my friend.
Sue
Thank you for your sweet words, Sue! You always encourage me greatly...
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